What You Can and Cannot Control

                                     

There are times where miscommunication or misunderstandings will occur, and conflict arises as a result. And some people will always see you in a negative light no matter what you do to make amends on your end. The best thing you can do is wish them well, give a sincere apology, be understanding as you share your piece, and give that person or people the space they need to process and heal or get over their offenses as their anger simmers down. 

When you've done all you need to, rest assured that your efforts weren't wasted, even if the person refuses to forgive you whether it be from a distance or up close.... Because you've done all you could and now you're making progress in healing and growth. Whatever they decide to do is on them now. Don't be so caught up in their opinions of you or try to convince them your side of the story.... What matters more is your peace and finding closure. You cannot please everyone and not everyone can please you.... We've all been wounded, disappointed, and offended by people and we've done that to others. 

You never know what someone has gone through or is going through. Don't assume or judge them so critically to justify your pride or anger when you feel slighted or they respond out of spite. Forgive, let it go, wish them the best, do your part, and work on improvement. Don't worry about things outside of your control.

For further reading: Winning The Battle Against Shame

When Forgiveness Is Impossible